Beware.....Pure Bitching

A couple of days ago I started a rant and wrote out a big bitch post and then deleted it.  My friend, Terri was disappointed that I deleted it.  She enjoys my rants.  LOL  I will attempt to recreate it.

Everyone that comes to our house, on an almost daily basis, knows:

• I hurt.  I need surgery.  Have needed it for eons, and as time goes by, I hurt more and more.  Some days, much more so than others. It's just a fact of life.
• Our front door is always locked.  If someone goes to the front door, I have to trudge thru the freakin house to answer the door and let them in.
• Our back door is always open, if we are home.  The people that come here the most often, (oh, let's say an employee's spouse for example) come to the back door, knock, holler a greeting and come on in.  (not my favorite scenario, but then I don't make all the rules).
• Why the F*** would said person, come to the front door when all they intended to do was to walk thru the house...to the BACK door and on outside to see Hubby who was in the back yard (and CLEARLY visible from the front driveway!!) 
• Same person was here the night before, seemingly 'quite concerned' because I was having an extra painful day.  Yeah, right.
• And even if he wasn't going to just pass on thru, the 'gathering spot' at our house is the kitchen, which is just inside the fooking BACK DOOR!  I have fairly large house, people.  My walking is limited.  I don't like "wasting" it by doing a lot of unnecessary running around!  Duh!

It just amazes me sometimes (and frustrates the living shit out of me) when people are so thoughtless (aka, brain dead).  This one usually takes the cake!  Never fails to amaze (and annoy) me.  I am not used to being around whiny, snively men and he is always so wrapped up in himself that he can't see beyond his own damn nose!  If it was just once in awhile, it would be okay.  He does it all the time.  All he has to do is park behind the barn and come to the back door (or in this case, half that distance, to the garden) and leave me the hell alone! 

My previous post was better, cuz I was freshly pissed off.  This one will have to do.  It still pisses me off.  In FACT.....employee did it just this AM when she knows better than most that I am always hurting in the morning for awhile after I get up.  She drives out behind the barn to unload some posts from her truck and then drives around front and makes me answer the freakin' door, when she intends to come to the kitchen and have coffee.  Now I ask you????  She is more easily forgiven than her sad sack, redneck spouse.....but still.  GRRRRR

One of the reasons I deleted the original post is because I felt that I was doing nothing more than putting an "Oh, poor me" moment out there.  Maybe it is.  And just maybe, every once in awhile, I am entitled to "Oh, poor me" moments!  I've been pretty damn tough for over 3 years (almost 4) dealing with all this bullshit in the various stages.  So, I feel entitled....as long as I don't over-do it.  Right????? It IS okay, isn't it????????  If not, then buzz off.......but please come back later ♥

And THEN...........get this!  He is SO brain dead that when they stopped in the night before the front door incident......he started bitching about Wal*Mart and his hour long shopping experience.  Totally ranting about how crowded it was, and how rude people are and how loud and noisy everyone's kids are and how people are inconsiderate and get in his way!  For an hour of his life, he was THE most miserable person to ever set foot in a W*M store!  O.M.G.  I kept trying to remind him that I used to spend 40 hours a week there, as a cashier, on the front lines.  Totally exposed to ALL the fun and games that the W*M experience has to offer.  He would have none of it.  Totally, repeatedly insisting that I had absolutely no idea how bad it was.  Holy shit!  The trauma!  And drama! 

I am surrounded by people like this.  The positive energy just FLOWS around my little corner of BFA!  ARGGGGG..............

On a lighter note, I saw my 1st Hummingbird of the season a short while ago.  I love it! :-)